the key to the door?

yeaps..in a 7 days time i will turn 21..*getting old* ="(

i heard from people that you will get a "golden key" when you reach 21 years old.
can anyone tell me what is the real meaning behind 21st birthday?
what is the golden key? or the key to the door?
*golden key as a birthday gift~wow, i don't think anyone will give that now since the gold price raised so high~~danger! danger!*

i browsed through the internet..don't know why i can't find any significant meanings..
uncle google can't help me.
is it "the key of freedom"? freedom for what? to go to the places whereby i'm not allowed to go into before reaching the age of 21? FREEDOM got a wide definitions i believe..

haha.. actually i doesn't really matters much to me because i could say that i got that freedom. thank God. =) i can go hang out with friends, i don't have any curfew (must be home by what time what time)..all i need to do is to inform my mom. funny though, at times such freedom made me thinks that my mom didn't really cares much about me. why? because she won't ask much or check out on my ongoing..*oh i know actually she really do care! cuma selamba sikit...haha. my mom loves me.* =)

yeah, my mom never check my purse, handphone, or whether i got to my homework before..even during kindergarten. she only ask whether i got study or not when i told her my exam was coming. if i didn't tell her, she don't even know i got exams! lolz..

i learn to take public bus when i was in form 1..that also was being forced by my sister(who encouraged my mom to ask me to take bus).. i really don't want.....well, after i learnt to take the bus, i like "yao mou yao yik" already..got wings~ started to go to different places by bus (still, mostly pudu area or KL area la).. i remembered the first time i started to go out by myself to hang out with friends was with....wai han! haha..two naughty girls. =P

i realised that responsibility is very important in handling the "freedom" you have(in whatever forms)..it is your responsibility that creates the trust in other people. my mom didn't check whether i got do my homework or not (which i hope sometimes she will).. oh, of course i did ask her why..i like to speak out my heart to her. she answered me, "i saw you got do your homework by yourself, so she didn't check..you really want me to check meh?" woo~ xD so, i think we ourselves need to take the initiative to do something without being called..

it's very important for us not to take for granted or misuse the freedom given by our parents.. in every decision we make, we need to consider their feelings.. i do admit i'm stubborn at times when i want something. my mom know that i won't agree even if she don't allow me. so, most of the time she will allow..of course it must be something that won't bring any harm to me. one of the example was the make-up course! at first she found no reason why i wanna take that course as part time..thank God, i didn't regret it. even my mom, i believe..

okie, come back to my coming birthday..how am i gonna celebrate it? 21st birthday suppose to be a big celebration(if you really practice that). my sister did that last time. but i think now not anymore..people are getting more & more busier nowadays..KL life. urgh~
it's going to be another working day for me..=.= guess i won't be going anywhere as well on that day because that night i got a date with my Daddy. haha...

anyway, today's evening i received a call from my dear sis..

jie: heys..you going to sang wat(birthday - sang yat) soon ah..??

me: huh?? sang wat?? (grow seeds)

jie: ya la..sang wat la...(birthday)

me: har?? what sang wat?? *blurr*

jie: sang yat lo...=.="

me: owh~ haha..yeah la. why??

jie: wanna ask you wanna go eat or not..hi tea.

me: wooo~ sure! xD

*lazy to type out the further conversation*

so..yeah, my sister gonna bring me for a hi-tea this coming saturday! woohoo! that's the only time i could go out with her~ oops, gathering with some YES buddies also will be on the same day, but it's at night~ o.O"

hmm..there are few things i wanna achieved in this age..& some birthday wishes to become true. most of all, i hope i can grow wiser & more mature in thinking while remaining a child like faith to God..

that's all for now. sorry for the wordy post. =P

ps: this post made me reflected back to my childhood..wish to blog about it one day. gonna be interesting~ xD but actually i can't really remember much la. =P